How to Attract the Guy You Have a Crush On

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 Steps

1. Make sure they know who you are. If your crush has no idea you exist, it’s going to be harder to attract him. Try to get to know each other. You can do this by getting to be pally with his mates, joining a club he’s in, or asking someone who knows him to introduce you two. If your crush is in your class, talk to him a little. You could comment on the teacher, the work you have to do, or make a joke when he’s listening. It’s scary, but you’ll feel good once you make a move.
2. Find Common Ground It’s easier to start conversations when you both have found something to talk about. You might possibly consider taking up some of his interests, but don’t become a whole different person just for a boy. It’s definitely not worth it. If you have no common interests, don’t freak out. If you’ve never watched a TV show before that he’s practically addicted to, just tell him, ask him about it. Instant conversation.
3. Befriend him. Okay, now everyone who has ever played Sims 2 or ever lived in reality knows you have to be friends before you get the whole “crush feeling” in return. You can’t just say hi and bam, he’s making out with you; you gotta do a little more work than that (but if that does happen then hey, no complaints…). Try finding some common interests (above section ^) to start a conversation. If that doesn’t work, you could always start out on a universal based conversation (i.e. weather {which usually isn’t very original}, a crazy thing that happened that day, presidential elections, assignments, how much you all hate a certain teacher…). And if all else fails, you could always just ask for a pencil or some paper and go from there. Maybe after you’ve gotten to know him a little better, you could joke with him or tease him, possibly even flirt with him. But don’t get too ahead of yourself; they might feel awkward if a girl they barely know started flirting hard-core with him.
4. Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable. Don’t feel pressured to dress just like all the other girls, don’t concern yourself with whether you have on the brand name that’s popular, don’t worry if your hair isn’t perfectly polished. If you feel comfortable, you will project your best self, and people will feel comfortable around you.
5. Try to Keep Clean. Cleanliness is close to godliness. I know it may seem silly but you might want to avoid smelling like last month’s salami in front of him. You don’t have to be flowery, clean-freakishly-fresh all the time, just try to shower daily, wear deodorant, possibly put on some nice lotion. But don’t over-do it. The poor kid might have asthma, and heaven forbid you give him an attack from your ooh-la-la fancy-smelling french perfume while trying to impress him. But yes, smelling nice, or at least presentable, is actually pretty attractive.
6. Be yourself. Seriously. You don’t have to change who you are for a boy, especially just a crush, no matter how amazing, cute, or funny he is. Giving a person that much control over you is not healthy (it’s actually a little frightening, to be honest…), and it will probably end up hurting you. If your crush doesn’t like you well then….maybe you should just move on. It might be hard, but there are plenty more fish, and if he can’t see how amazing you are, he doesn’t deserve you. But you don’t have to change yourself to conform to a boy’s standards, or anyone else’s for that matter.
7. Be clear on your intentions. Nothing is more tragic than the oh-so-cliche’ friend-likes-friend-who-doesn’t-like-her-that-way teenage drama. Be sure that you aren’t considered “one of the guys” or just his “bud”. Of course you have to get to know him first, and you may possibly just gain an amazing friend in the process,(which is all right, some pursued crushes could turn out to be one of your best friends) but be a little more flirty with him, in a way that you’re sure one of his “buds” wouldn’t be. (Ex: maybe give him a hug, a playful peck on the cheek, play with his hair….)